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Old 08-19-2013, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Marcus View Post
I suppose people can "negotiate" some kind of compromise so that the relationship trudges on and everyone is only a little unhappy.
The negotiation I refer to is not about trying to find a "middle way" where all concerned are giving up a bit of their happiness to keep the peace. Instead it's more about creating opportunities for growing relationships, both collectively and as individuals, without destroying the fabric that holds the relationship together.

It's all about moving out of the fabled 'comfort zone' and into growth without tipping over into panic. If people can find a way to support each other in this process it often leads to very healthy, vibrant relationships in my own personal and professional experience.
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