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Old 08-19-2013, 03:02 PM
RumRumi RumRumi is offline
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What GalaGirl said. I'm new to this whole thing too, and the one thing that I have learned is that the only way a poly relationship will work is if I am attending to my wifey, and allowing both of our needs to be heard.

We live in a mono world, and the cultural message is, "You can only love one person at a time." Perhaps your husband isn't quite grasping that he needs to be attending to you rather than putting a disproportionate amount of energy into the new girl.
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