Originally Posted by gorgeouskitten
Thanks everyone. Well, he's irrate the wife knew we all (me, she, wife) thought a quad would be cool and he didn't know. He thinks I tried to set my spouse up knowing they had a one penis policy and was stringing him along, which isn't true. I wouldn't date someone with a one penis policy anyway, I think that's inherently unfair in poly (unless it's what the wife WANTs) what's good for the goose is good for the gander. He's placing the blame of his wife raising the man dating question squarely on me and my spouse. Sounds like the friendship is over too. So feeling pretty shitty.
Just to clarify, we did NOT befriend them thinking about quads. I had clicked with him and it want until my spouse and hîs had a mutual attraction that it even came up
I am sorry, but at least now you know. The one penis policy is bad enough, but flinging blame around rather than acting like an adult, is just so not attractive. I find that behavior equally repellent.