No did not have a ring on when i met Murf. I had lost so much weight my ring just fell off so I have not worn it in 2 years. It means too much to me to risk losing it and it can not be resized.
I have always been into classic and antique cars. My husband is not. We met through the car scene. We ran across each other at a few car cruises and he fell hard. The local cruise has a dinner stop amongst others where you get to socialize. After the third one he asked me out on a date. Then came the hard conversation .. Long story short he decided he wanted me in his life.
Been together almost 16 months.
Late 30's staight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.