looking for a little help
A gentleman and I have been involved with each other for about five years now. He recently started to see a lady that has been in our lives a few years back and it all ended poorly on everyone's part.
He told me that he recently went and visited her in TN. He said she asked about me and if we saw each other. His response was that we had seen each other twice since I had come back from traveling for little but did not inform her that we are still very much involved in each others' lives. From talking to each other every day, sleeping with each other, he still has my car and one dog, I felt he should of informed her of all this and he didn't.
I told him I wanted to call this lady and see how she is and inform her myself of everything that is still going on in our "friendship". He got upset and told me I wasn't allowed to call her. Grant it this lady told both of us that she didn't want us in her life any more but alas here we are three years later.
Should I make him tell her where we are at with each other or should I make the connection via phone, email? I am currently in PA so I can't see this lady in person.
A little help/advice?