I met Murf in person not online... so today when he called be before work I asked if he would have approached me if I was wearing a ring. He said no.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.