Originally Posted by Krys
The conversation actually came up quite naturally when he mentioned he had been on a couple new dates this past week. Unfortunately, when discussed he stated he preferred keeping things casual.
Don't let this dishearten you. I am seeing a man who is going through a divorce. Besides the distress of dissolving the marriage, at times he finds himself experiencing illogical feelings like: living with someone leads to turmoil and chaos. He knows generalizing (especially given that I am 180 degrees different from his ex) is not rational, but he still has to work through it.
It may very well be your bf will want to remain casual with everyone for awhile, depending on what he needs to work through.