Originally Posted by Krys
On the other hand, I know that if I didn't take the opportunity to make my feelings known and find out where I stand I will become incredibly hurt when he does eventually find a primary partner and fills that role.
Or angry with yourself for not having seized the chance while you had it. It sounds like you know what you need to do.
Compassionate toward yourself, you reconcile all beings in the world.
- Tao Te Ching