So Dirtclustit, it seems from your post that you're perfectly aware that this is an ancient thread, and pretty much all the participants, including the one you're most directly responding too have long since moved on,....
So in case anyone else comes along and reads this thread, this is known as Necroposting, and unless there's going to be extreme value added or a really compelling reason to do so, it's not recommended.
The thread was well enough as it was. Let it rest. On that note.....LOCKED.