It is extremely important to be a clear communicator when you're poly. Here, it doesn't matter so much, but when you're trying to negotiate with 2 or more romantic partners, it is crucial. So, practice here, apply with partners.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37