Leave it on... if you feel naked without it. These guys know you're married so who cares.
The only reason I don't wear mine is I have lost so much weight mine falls off.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.