Yeah id think he may at least possibly be ok with our spouses dating since they ARE poly, but youre right they havent talked about it so i have no idea. And i agree we shouldnt hold it against him, but its tough.
Marcus, i know i know i have quad brain :/ the problem is, i can just focus on "oh do i want to date this guy" but i dont if my husband dislikes him. I know you are a firm believer of each owning our own sh*t, but i do take into account if my husband is cool with the fella or not. Also, im already involved in a relationship with spouse inter-relationship issues and i dont want more of that
keep on keeping on