What Marcus said..
I have always been of the mind your own businesses and manage your own relationship camp. Stop trying to micro manage your husbands relationship. He is a big boy and needs to take care of his own business.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.