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Old 08-15-2013, 03:39 AM
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2) Nisha's been… how do I put this… stress eating

She's been stressed the last few months and she stress eats… and so she's put on a bit of weight here and there . . .

I wish I knew how to proceed with this, I want to be supportive.
The overeating is just a symptom. She needs to address the cause - what is she stressing about? If, for example, she is stressed over her family pressuring her to get married already, then maybe instead of eating, she needs to stand up to them and tell them to cut it out.
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