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Old 02-14-2010, 01:58 AM
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I'm not sure I understand intimacy. For me, I think I could tell anyone anything, and if they reacted negatively to it, I would take that as a deficiency on their part rather than mine. Obviously I keep some secrets for convenience sake, (Didn't tell the boys I worked with in the oilfield about the time I spent a week in another man's bed... although seeing their reactions would have been pretty fun,) but when I'm getting to know a new partner, I usually tell them about myself based on what I think they're comfortable knowing, rather than what I'm comfortable telling.

Of course this may just be another manifestation of my inferiority complex that I mask with a delusion of superiority... any insights would be welcome.
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