Hello and an Intro
Hi, so I'm Glenn. My wife and I have been married for 11 yrs monogamously, we got married when I was 18, so pretty young, our marriage is very strong and stable. But we both felt like something was a little off, through many long discussions we reached the conclusion this summer we wanted to attempt to become more open about our relationships and such.
She had been in love with one of my friends for years, so I encouraged her to go ahead and ask him out. He didn't handle this premise well, he is stuck on the concept that I am not ok with it. Despite this he still likes to come over to my house (2-3x a week for a few hours), which has caused her a bit of stress as they can't seem to talk about things in person. She's doing alright though, but it's proven very complex.
Thankfully all the other friends we've told have handled the idea better than I anticipated. One of my female friends in particular I was really nervous about as we recently became friends and I am very interested in her, but didn't want to scare her off or anything. She's a few years older than I am and I know she is trying to find a lighter casual friendship with fun rompy time occasionally, but I am having a hard time thinking of how to approach her as eve if it didn't work out, I'd rather her still be friends with us.
Anyways it's cool to be here, and if you managed to read my text wall, good for you, +2 points.