Originally Posted by willowstar
BF and I are supposed to be together.
Sorry to be blunt - but who told you this? The Tarot? Divine Guidance? The Wicked Witch of the West? Or is it just a 'feeling'?
In my experience this sort of blind belief in 'destiny' (or whatever you call it) can be a real show-stopper when it comes to negotiation and healthy communication. I just saw a 10 year old poly relationship implode because of this very same dynamic.
Compassionate toward yourself, you reconcile all beings in the world.
- Tao Te Ching
Last edited by northhome; 08-13-2013 at 07:52 PM.