Originally Posted by sunnydee
What are you getting out of this relationship? You want it to "be like it was" or to "be what it could be," but what is it? Now? Really?
That's what I'm trying to figure out. I am going to try counseling and see where that goes. I want to be able to express the way I am feeling in this relationship without it being seen (on his part) as a power play. I think though that it's going to take a lot of work from people that may not be as committed to seeing this relationship succeed as I am and that makes me lose heart.