Originally Posted by nycindie
It's good that he confessed and that the conversation was productive. However, have you thought about the woman he fucked? Was there honesty all around? Does she know he is married? If so, does she know his wife consents to a non-monogamous arrangement? It's important, if he is going to continue fucking and seeing her, that she not be deceived into thinking she could eventually be his "one and only."
I've met her a few times. He said he told her I am okay with any activities, which I had previously given my consent when he told me he was interested in her.
She herself has a serious boyfriend. But I am & neither is he, sure of what she ultimately wants in this development. He will need to discuss it with her.