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Old 02-12-2010, 11:07 PM
polytriad polytriad is offline
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Originally Posted by CielDuMatin View Post
Well, do the three of you share that goal? If so, then you will all be working toward that. how to find out? Talk about it! If you do not all share that goal, then it's going to be a frustrating struggle to make it happen.

Most people feel better to least each relationship develop as it will - organically if you like. You have four relationships that can each develop - the ones between each pairing (3) and the one of the three of you together - spending time to nurture each of these and to see what they can be is very important. I would advise against trying to make it fit some mold or pre-conceived idea if you can. Let it be whatever it will be.
WOW...I totally get that. I feel so much better after reading that. Thanks. You are quite wise.
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