Originally Posted by Natja
I quite clearly said not to be too hard on them
That's very generous of you
Who knows what might befall them otherwise? A visit from the Political Correctness police? (This is a joke Natja, relax).
Who cares what people call themselves? At the end of the day language is very often an imprecise attempt to communicate what is going on inside human beings. Since so much of who we are is impossible to communicate rationally it's amazing we manage at all!
BTW I know that in my triad experiences there has been lots of bi-sexual 'energy' bouncing about. There might be another more accurate way to express male/female and female/female concurrent activity however. I'm open to suggestions...