Hello Raven and Steven,
Where do you live? If you live in(or near) a big city there are quite a few poly gatherings, try meetup.com and search for polyamory near your local city. If you live out in the country it would be harder but still not impossible. Many people advocate venturing out where the more geek/alternative people hang out as chances are a higher proportion of those people will be interested or open to alternative relationship models. Looking exclusively online is difficult. Does any of this feel useful to you?