Originally Posted by CattivaGattina
This sentence makes it sound like he's really not into poly (having multiple relationships) and would be better with swinging (and the type of swinging where each couple is in the same room) or just threesomes and orgies.
If this isn't what you want then you guys will have to decide what to do.
I am poly & he realizes that to ask me to change is not going to make either of us happy. We are discussing it. I truly feel he is poly but needs to figure some of this out on his own. Last winter he had a girlfriend whom he felt love for. The g/f couldn't accept he loved me at the same time.