Thread: A new adventure
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Old 08-10-2013, 08:33 PM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
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Hello and welcome to the Forums!

It certainly sounds as though you and your partners and metamours are in a position to explore yourselves and your relationships in a healthy and positive way. Your metamour (D) may need lots of reassurance from your paramour (S) - it sounds as though he is willing to give it a go and with your and S's patience and compassion as he weathers the paradigm shift from monogamy to polyamory.

I hope that you find the support you are seeking by joining us here!

Yes, loving more than one IS different than having multiple partners for sex only - a whole nother level. A learning curve for each person - one I am exploring in a new way currently (one of my primary partners, as opposed to FWBs, being open to developing new significant relationships outside of our established Vee).

Good Luck and Welcome (again)!

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (5+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic girlfriend and BFF
Lotus: "it's complicated"
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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