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Old 08-10-2013, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Marcus View Post
This group doesn't agree on a single solitary thing, I assure you lol

Originally Posted by Marcus View Post
To me for an agreement to qualify as DADT it includes a degree of denial.
I was in AA for 20 years and the topic of denial was talked about a lot. One day I realized that some denial is necessary for our survival. If all denial was immediately removed from the planet, everything would fall apart.....within a house of cards.

That said, I am fortunate to have a relationship with my SO where we can share about our other relationships. I'm a little different from Marcus in that I like to hear the details of his sexual experiences with his girlfriend and I even like to watch if given the opportunity!
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.
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