Originally Posted by sillygirl
After a couple of months of unsuccessful OkC dates, I've met a great poly couple who's part of a local group. I've dated her (the wife, Y) a few times, and things are going great, we're very compatible. Y has other loves as well, and I might be dating her other GF soon.
Our poly worlds intersected because I was (and am still sporadically) dating CC, who has been long term with J. And Y has been dating J for a short while now. She messaged me and asked if the other girl I was dating is CC, and we laughed because it's a small poly world.
That's confusing. Need a Venn diagram.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 58, living with:
miss pixi, 37, who is dating (NRE):