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Old 08-10-2013, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted by CattivaGattina View Post
. . . He told me that when he talked to Lamian she was fine with us having some sort of a dynamic as long as it wasn't 24/7, a full M/s one, or have it become a lifestyle. He informed me I'm still his pet, he does still own me, we can when it's just us (even in public) have a full submissive/slave aspect.

Once he told me that it felt like a weight had lifted off my chest.
That is all well and good, and I am glad you have what you want with him again, BUT how does he intend to address the fact that Lamian lets her emotions dictate how YOU can be in YOUR relationship with him? What's going to happen the next time she gets a bug up her ass and all pouty about something? Is he going to stand up to her and defend his relationship with you or let her walk all over what you two have again? I think this is the biggest problem - she is a dictator and he puts her needs before his own.
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