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Old 08-10-2013, 03:29 AM
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The people I associate with wouldn't care if I thought I owned them because they know I don't and couldn't. This leaves me no reason to avoid such terminology. I have no issue with the commitment, obligation or expectations that come with labels so I have no reason to feel pressured or restricted by them. Being obliged to do something doesn't invalidate the fact that I would want to be beneficial to that person in that way. I know for lots of people, once they are expected to do something for someone, they don't want to do it.
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