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Old 08-10-2013, 03:13 AM
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I asked him, & he says it's mainly the time I spend away, but also the intensity that bothers him. So I don't think he'd be happy unless I saw the outside person less.
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A few months ago, while Boyfriend was out of town for the weekend, I connected with someone...

Boyfriend went out of town again a few days ago, & I started hanging out with NewGuy...
It appears that it's your BF who's the one going away, so I don't buy the "it's mainly the time I spend away" argument. If BF isn't in town when you're out on a date then it's not as if your dating is taking away from time you could be spending with him. It sounds more like a control or ownership issue.
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