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Old 08-10-2013, 03:06 AM
LovelyFuture LovelyFuture is offline
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london: Good ideas, all of them. I asked him, & he says it's mainly the time I spend away, but also the intensity that bothers him. So I don't think he'd be happy unless I saw the outside person less. Incompatibility may be the conclusion, but SO is my best friend, lover, and I'm his only family, so it's hard to think about that :-/


Ariakas: Yes, it does sound like he's more into something like swinging. (which is not my thing, really.)

And yes, our open relationship expectations should have been aligned, but when we got together, all we said was "we're in an open relationship, don't own each other, and are into seeing other people." It's pretty wild that it took some years for us to run into situations that required defining that further! @__@
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