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Old 08-10-2013, 01:59 AM
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You might have to accept your needs are incompatible. I mean, sure, you could try and identify his insecurities and work on them but he might not have any. This might just be what works for him. Asking you to limit your emotional and physical availability with others might be too hard for you in a dating context and the only way to keep within his boundaries is non monogamous activity like swinging that inherently restricts those things. Swinging might not work for you though, and it comes back down to incompatibility. You want different things.
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