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Old 02-11-2010, 04:39 AM
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Exactly what I was trying to frame in my head, Mono. I resist the idea that my other partners are less important, but if the worst happened and I had to make a choice, of course I would have to pick my husband--my primary relationship. And I accept that my other partners would have to pick their marriage. We would all seek to keep the core of our families stable, at the very least to provide a good foundation for our children. I would hope we would all work hard to avoid that outcome, but the bottom line is that I am by necessity a secondary, as they are secondaries for me.
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