Opalescent: "Your parents died suddenly (I am so sorry) and you are moving away from your original faith. You are reassessing who you are. This is a normal aspect of grief for many people. It is a good if painful and upsetting thing. You are figuring out who you are again. Just know that who you want to be is inside you, not with any one else."
Yes this. Lots of reassessing. And my life (more than half of it) has been so entangled and identified by my relationship with FJ-maybe that is what I'm struggling with more than the perceived incompatibility.
franchescasc-33, bi female, likely monogomish formerly in triad relationship with:
FJ-36, married 15 yrs
MD-35, gf for 8 months
Currently dating SM, male, 40, monogamous