I'm open an always have been. Family, friends, coworkers all know. Now while my ex and I were poly, I no longer talk to him so I don't advertise the fact that I still am to him because I don't need any baby daddy drama from him. My 14 year old knows, we don't hide it from my younger sob (j spends the night sometimes) but we also don't talk to him about it
done with poly, the end.