Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
But I also didn't care if he chose to go do things with her-so long as i wasn't dragged along.
OK, yes, it bugs me that she wants to spend time with him. In my previous post I started to catalog all the ways we are different but I realized that it was filtered through my insecurities. That is, we are SO different in so many obvious ways (that I won't list) she must actually prefer those things because, for me, I couldn't stand it for a minute.
But comparing is a bad idea.