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Old 08-07-2013, 01:39 PM
Darkling Darkling is offline
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Default Complicated

Good morning,

Thanks for the replies, I appreciate it!

"willingness to move at the pace of whoever is experiencing the most discomfort is a plan that works well for my relationships."

This is a good perspective. I will repeat this to myself while taking very deep breaths.

As for me picking the right person...I think that the right person would be, a.) someone that my husband and I met at the same time, not someone who I met independently that he didn't know, b.) Someone that he at least knew/liked, c.) someone who was either my husband's age or older, d.) someone who was also a parent, e.) and a few other things that if I wrote them would instantly make this post less anonymous .

Thanks again,

~darkling
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