Originally Posted by idealist
The interesting thing about labels is that poly people are supposed to be so ethical etc. etc. And swingers are supposed to be hedonistic and shallow. I have actually experienced the opposite in my life. The people i have encountered that identify as poly have been full of drama and their relationships aren't working so well. The people i know who identify as swingers are ethical, emotionally mature, in healthy long term relationships, stable, fun......and the list goes on! Life is funny, people are interesting and labels are misleading.
I don't "identify" either way in any circles, but I, too have observed/experienced the same thing(s) you just described.