A little more about me. I forget details:
We became swingers 13 years ago
Opened our marriage a year ago
Polyamory in-depth decision a month ago
Currently we have a lover that hubby shares me with. Remember that feeling when we were young & first laid eyes on a potential sweety? Love at first sight, that is what i felt for L (lover). Is it reciprocated? Not exactly. L feels something but he is not of the polyamorous mind frame so hubby & i decided to enjoy the now. When the fun ends it'll be as friends.
My feelings for L really opened my eyes to realizing I have the ability to passionately love more than one person at the exact same time. We don't consider that we have a poly relationship with L, but L has been the doorway for us.