Yesterday Redpepper and I sat down with a couple who recently have begun exploring the idea of opening up their relationship to more people. They asked to have coffee with us and, once trust was established, they shared on a surprisingly deep level about their fears and hopes. Later that night we had dinner with many people from our community and had a talk with a friend who has a mono girlfriend and was curious about our perspective as an experienced and persevering mono/poly couple.
At the end of the night we both felt like we had made a difference, made some connections and provided a well balanced perspective on two very different situations.
I seem to be coming into a time of comfort and even greater optimism toward the future. I thrive when comfortable and so I feel healthy and happy....the future is looking much clearer to me now.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
Poly Events All Over