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Old 08-05-2013, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Flowerchild View Post

Does it make it harder for straight couples to be poly, as they can't really be fully integrated with their respective partners, but each has to date on their own?
Most poly people do not fuck their partners' partners, gay, bi, het or pansexual as they may be.

In fact, looking to do team dating, where a committed couple want to "share" a woman together, is looked down upon by experienced polyamorists, gay, bi, pansexual or straight.

That said, if your straight husband finds another woman to date, she could be straight, and eventually might come to like you as a friend, and you 3 could have a 3way sexytime, where the women do not kiss, fondle, or go down on each other. You both just focus on the man. This might happen very naturally if she is spending the evening at your house, and all 3 of you are sitting on the couch, man in the middle.

Problem solved.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62)
Pixi (poly, F, 40) my partner since January 2009
Kahlo (poly-curious, M, 45) my bf since August 2017
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's Dom/bf since April 2013
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