Originally Posted by Flowerchild
Does it make it harder for straight couples to be poly, as they can't really be fully integrated with their respective partners, but each has to date on their own?
Most poly people do not fuck their partners' partners, gay, bi, het or pansexual as they may be.
In fact, looking to do team dating, where a committed couple want to "share" a woman together, is looked down upon by experienced polyamorists, gay, bi, pansexual or straight.
That said, if your straight husband finds another woman to date, she could be straight, and eventually might come to like you as a friend, and you 3 could have a 3way sexytime, where the women do not kiss, fondle, or go down on each other. You both just focus on the man. This might happen very naturally if she is spending the evening at your house, and all 3 of you are sitting on the couch, man in the middle.