And if you try Poly (or even if you don't), and it's not for you, THAT'S OKAY. It's okay to be Mono while your partner is Poly. It may result in a lot of self-work and introspection, but you need to be true to yourself while your partner does the same.
Mono. Divorced, two kids (DanceGirl, 13; and PokéGirl, 10), two cats, one house, many projects.
My partner. Poly. In relationships with me, Xena, and Noa.
Poly. In relationships with Chops and Noa, and dating others.
Married, Poly. In relationships with Chops and Xena (individually).
Blog thread: A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")
Slightly more polished blog with a mono/poly focus: From Baltic to Boardwalk