What does "pull the scab off" mean to you? Please explain
She goes off on a dinner/movie date? If so, chill. This doesn't have to be more than first date kinda stuff, and I'm sure she's gone off to dinner/movies with her friends. You can step in at the shallow end of the pool and make your way across in time. Realize that it TAKES time for the "new normal" to become normal.
She goes and has casual sex with someone else she doesn't know well? I would not suggest this. Moving too fast too soon is a great way to have things "blow up" -- the very thing you are worried about.
Last edited by GalaGirl; 08-05-2013 at 01:33 PM.