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Old 08-04-2013, 11:08 PM
london london is offline
Join Date: May 2013
Location: UK - land of the free
Posts: 1,635

my rules are condoms with others unless discussed with fluid bonded partners. We are generally happy to allow our partners to decide who they have unprotected sex with and handle seeing test results etc. I know that my partners wouldn't want to put themselves or me at unnecessary risk and we have a shared ethos about risk management. It would be ridiculous for me to be fucking two men "bareback" whilst I forbid them to fluid bond with anyone who isn't monogamous. We are poly. We date poly people (mostly). We try to be consistent with our rules and boundaries and not let personal opinions or prejudices influence our decision making.
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