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Old 08-04-2013, 01:59 PM
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Mags, I think you and I often find ourselves in situations with men who need healing in various ways (relating/sexual/emotional) in their lives. It's that medicine woman/temple prostitute thing we've talked about, where we can give of ourselves so easily and men appreciate it, glom onto it, but then once the man is healed, he goes off on his way to live his life without us. So, I see nothing wrong with getting involved with someone who is a little broken or in need of whatever soothing/understanding/healing you can give, but as long as you protect yourself and not hope for him to stick around. KWIM?
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