Originally Posted by BigGuy
My wife can't stand to touch or be touched on her (or by) feet because of "cooties". I don't think the same way. Is she being unreasonable asking me not to touch her feet? Perhaps, but I'm willing to accommodate. It's all part of being in a relationship.
The answer to this question is no. Unequivocally, no. It is in no way unreasonable for someone to tell (not ask) me what she is not into and tell (not ask) me to not do it to her.
This is a good example of her taking responsibility for her desires and limitations. If she were to tell you not to touch *other* peoples feet because it makes her uneasy, that would be closer to what the OP is suggesting which is what would get a raised eyebrow from me.