If you are uncomfortable and want to know something in your polynetwork, just ASK. It doesn't mean you will get any reply. But you sure won't get reply if you are silent. People are not mind readers.
As to your sex practices/habits and comfort level -- that's all on you. You could ask if she's willing/he's willing to not have more 'risky' unprotected behaviors together until his testing clears. They might be willing. They might NOT be willing to grant your request.
But YOU could also take responsibility for your own sex practices and tell your people you are sticking to "barrier" sex (condoms, gloves, whatever you use) until his labs clear.
Last edited by GalaGirl; 08-03-2013 at 03:10 PM.