Originally Posted by Flowerchild
He told me these things, 1) That she has said she thinks I'm not pretty and 2) He tells her things I've accomplished, and he says she just dismisses them.
why does he tell YOU all that? If he is into you, why does he need to put you down using a third party who for all you know, never said those things?
If my spouse habitually badmouthed my other partners about things that are unrelated to the way i am being treated by them, i would say to my spouse, "what the hell is YOUR problem? If you don't like the way C looks, don't look. If you don't like what R does for work, don't lock your keys in your truck."