As to whether I will "get something out of" this new person, well, I wouldn't have seen him at all if I didn't think he had potential. Will wait til things simmer down a bit more, they have a couple counseling sessions under their belt, etc.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 58, living with:
miss pixi, 37, who is dating (NRE):