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Old 08-02-2013, 03:28 PM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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Who is telling you this?

The same BF who is telling you the other brainwashy sounding things?

If hanging around him is unhealthy for you mental health -- could stop hanging around him then. You are responsible for your own well-being.

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Is it unrealistic to expect her to be happy for me?
You could hope it. But how she feels isn't up to you.

If the fact is that she IS NOT happy for you at this time?

Could examine your feelings/conduct to see how your choices are affecting you (and the other people in the polyship).

Could consider how her feelings/conduct choices affect you (and the other people in the polyship).

Could consider how his feelings/conduct choices affect you (and the other people in the polyship).

Could consider if you feel like continuing to participate in this polyship in this emotional climate. The polymath could matter to you. Or not. Up to you.

Again... You are responsible for your own well-being and what people you choose to expose yourself to.

Galagirl

Last edited by GalaGirl; 08-02-2013 at 03:40 PM.
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