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Old 08-02-2013, 11:05 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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... possibly use protection with the "secondaries". (we don't use condoms, never have)
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i feel like i dont have any control and that the primary has a little bit more. especially as she doesnt know about me.
Wait a sec - I missed the no condoms bit the first time around.

So...he is having unprotected sex with you AND she doesn't even KNOW about you and you think SHE has more control? This guy is playing both of you - stop letting him (and go get yourself STI tested - there's a good likelihood that he is playing others as well).

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